Have you ever thought about how many of your policies and procedures exist because a few people broke the rules? In a similar way we all have to endure travel headaches because of the actions of a few individuals. Some policies, procedures and regulations are helpful in establishing expectations. Sometimes we go too far and instead of confronting and correcting the behaviors of a few, we look towards group meetings and more restrictive policies.
Commit or Omit?
The vast majority of bosses don’t intentionally want to make employees miserable – usually it happens completely by accident! Whether it is an act of ‘commission’ or an act of ‘omission’, the results can be destructive.
A front line supervisor, manager or team leader can make things better or worse, both with what they DO and what they DON’T do.
Supervisor – Salt, Sugar or Spice?
Transparent or need to know basis?
How much information should a leader really share with employees? Some bosses are like Col. Jessup played by Jack Nicholson in A Few Good Men in thinking their employees “can’t handle the truth.”
Communication continues to be cited as a problem in nearly all organizations. Solving communication problems is kind of like finding a cure for the common cold. Instead of fixing it, we put up with the symptoms.
One of our clients measured the time it took for a juicy rumor to spread from the front office to the shipping dock. 20 minutes! And yet at the same time it can take months or years to deliver key management messages.
An organization with an over active grapevine tends to be one where the official lines of communication are either overly controlled or not plentiful enough in their sharing.
Many managers, supervisors and executives are overly guarded in what they communicate. Either this is because the manager feels it unnecessary to share information or thinks that employees need not concerns themselves with information seemingly irrelevant to their specific job function. Certainly leaders do need to be cautious when musing about what might happen down the road. However, when it comes to discussing present-day facts and past performance we encourage over communication. Employees have such a desire to know what is going on they will make up information if management isn’t communicating enough.
Putting the Ideas into Action
- Do you have information that employees would like to know? Is there a down side to sharing it? Would employees be more likely to help you achieve success if they knew more about what was going on? Then begin sharing more. When holding back information, ask yourself if there is a good reason to do so.
- Use all means available to you – town hall meetings, one on ones, emails, newsletters.
- Be prepared to repeat yourself. Key messages can take a long time to sink in so repetition will help.
- Observe how morale and attitude improves with more frequent communication about what is going on.
Making amends
- If you are in a leadership role and have made mistakes or breached trust then own up to it. You will gain credibility and respect from your employees.
- Instead of trying to project a stoic, unemotional leadership style why not let your guard down a bit and be more approachable. Being more ‘real’ with your employees can create a better sense of teamwork.
- Remember that employees have good BS detectors and that means you should say it like it is even when the message is painful.
Employees who feel entitled
- Prevent an attitude of entitlement to establish itself by reinforcing desired results AND behavior.
- Provide coaching as soon as possible when an attitude issue becomes apparent.
- If coaching fails to improve the situation consider using progressive discipline to apply negative consequences.
- If attitude improves, provide positive feedback and encouragement.
- If attitude tends to relapse after a few weeks or months, then deal with that pattern in a coaching or correcting conversation.
Caught in the Chaos?
- List all of the hassles and frustrations you encounter on a regular basis.
- Describe your department in the future where those hassles have melted away and your vision has been achieved.
- Think about the steps that would need to be taken to get there.
- Keep that picture in your mind as you move forward.
- Even when you find yourself going in circles because of today’s circumstances, realize that your vision is becoming closer to being a reality.
- Watch how your team responds to your vision and helps you achieve it.
- Feel the sense of satisfaction that comes from a job well done.
Teamwork requires conflict
If the title of this article makes you scratch your head, consider for a few minutes the concept that a strong team with a high degree of trust requires its members to challenge one another.
Ian Thomas, a professional speaker from South Africa was using the illustration of a pride of lions and the lessons we could learn in terms of our workplace teams.
A few observations:
- Studies show that as little as 5% of employees actually understand the goals they are supposed to pursue. There is a pretty good chance then that your team is not pulling in the same direction.
- Strong teams require strong individuals. Thomas suggests that every member of a lion pride has a job to do – some protect territory, some chase prey towards other members who go in for the kill. If any one of the team members is weak it automatically causes other team members to mistrust them because they are not helping advance towards the objective.
- The team must challenge one another in order to make absolutely sure that they trust one another to pursue the goal together.
The conflict comes when the team debates the goal, makes sure they understand it completely and are totally committed to achieving the goal. They also have to challenge one another to bring 100% of themselves to the pursuit of the goal.
By not challenging one another in a work team, it might at first appear that everything is ‘okay’ with the team. In reality a team that loses confidence in itself and what the goal is will also breed mistrust and ultimately performance will suffer.
Putting it into action
- Instead of assuming the team understands the goal – clarify it, debate it and ensure complete understanding.
- Challenge each member of the team to be the absolute best at what they do and make sure you hire people who can perform to your expectations.
- Encourage conflict be having the team challenge one another to be the best they can be.
Misdirected by metrics?
- Based on where you are trying to take your organization, decide which metrics will provide the feedback you need to make better decisions.
- Consider the value of some measurements – what does it cost to track that information and what decisions get made from it?
- Consider the unintended consequences that might be created by paying attention to certain metrics.
Hiding behind your keyboard?
For all the productivity improvements technology has brought us, there is a dark side and it is impacting employee engagement and management effectiveness.
I’m talking about the tendency to send emails instead of going and talking to people.
In extreme cases it might even be to the person in the office or cubical next door.
With technology, it has become easy to avoid talking to people. Even cell phone providers are noticing that subscribers aren’t using many voice minutes, preferring instead to send texts and emails. For a manager, the use of technology can create an illusion of productivity and leave behind a wake of destruction in terms of engagement and less than stellar results.
Email isn’t a problem when dealing with facts and figures. It is a problem when dealing with conflict, persuasion and criticism. You may have been on the receiving end of a caustic email, or perhaps caught in the cross fire between two colleagues trying to out do one another with criticism. Hopefully you haven’t been the sender of this type of communication.
One of the exercises in our front line leadership course is reflecting on a communication situation in which you feel uncomfortable. Some of the most frequent responses:
- Delivering bad news
- Dealing with authority figures
- Communicating with negative people
The discomfort leads to avoidance and makes it easier to type out an email instead of doing the right thing – going to talk to the person. Yes it takes longer and it could get a little messy and yet it is the only way to achieve the results you are looking for.
Putting it Into Action
- When you are avoiding a conversation, stop yourself from sending the email and go talk to the person.
- Before you send criticism by email and copy everyone in the organization – stop and go talk to the person.
- Before you hit ‘reply to all’ and send back a zinger to someone who maligned you, stop and go talk to the person.
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